Wednesday, April 3, 2013

But...I've tried everything!


You're exhausted, over-whelmed, and often, frustrated. You may have been through several trainers, or just one trainer and a bunch of training to no avail. 

It can feel as if you've tried everything to change your dog's behavior. But, in reality, we know that's not the case. There are other trainers and other ideas out there that you simply haven't had access too. So, if you're feeling frazzled, here's some ideas to help you get on the road to better behavior!

If you have enlisted the help of a professional - call them! That's what we're here for. Explain your frustration and any problems you're having, Be ready (and open) to honest feedback and perhaps even the need for another training session. Good behavior is constantly a work in progress!

Don't have a trainer? *clears throat* Eh-hem...time to find someone. Professionals do this day in and day out, good trainers study behavior and are constantly learning. They will be able to help you troubleshoot problems and teach you exactly how to get the behavior you want! Need help finding a qualified professional? Search Here.
 
Tried a bunch of trainers? Take a deep breath, and sit down with your notes from all those sessions. Go back through them and look for key points that perhaps more than one trainer has mentioned. Also, look for any suggestions that you may have forgotten about. Then, start working through some of those again. It's easy to get overwhelmed or confused, but re-reading through your notes can often spark an idea or re-fuel your training plan.

Have a neighbor/friend/co-worker who told you what to do? If this person is not a qualified professional, I'd be weary of any advice. Once you have a dog with problematic behavior, it seems everyone around you becomes a dog expert! While well-meaning, the feedback I hear being given is often inappropriate or even harmful. This can make behavior much worse! There are many places online with science-backed information & articles to help you, one resource we love is the training library at 4Paws University. Ultimately, be prepared to call in a professional if you need one (see suggestion above about not having a trainer)!

Still frustrated? Make sure your calm and/or happy when working your dog. Dogs are very conscious of human body language and behavior, if you're frustrated and acting on, pretty soon your dog will be too! Have a cup of tea, or a glass of wine, or do something silly with your dog and laugh! You'll both have a much better training session.
 
So, go ahead, give a few of these a try before you throw in the towel. Dog training can be labor and time intensive, but the rewards are so worth it in the end! 
 
Happy Training!
Anna Bettina
HappyHealthyPup.com